Suman Tarway

even the sneaky ones

Here is how to spot an energy drain: even the sneaky ones

When I began the inner work of designing my midlife,  my biggest challenge wasn’t just time management—it was identifying and eliminating any energy drain that was keeping me unproductive. Despite having more free time with the kids grown up, I found myself still struggling to get things done. The real battle wasn’t about making time, […]

OMG From Sinner to Saint in 60 mins : Pura Tirta Empul temple

 KABIR, the Sufi saint says- Seeking Why run around sprinkling holy water? There’s an ocean inside you, and when you’re ready you’ll drink. And here I am, semi-dressed, about to plunge into the holy pool at Pura Tirta Empul temple to give my sins a proper rinse. Ah, the convenience—just a quick dip, and poof, […]

Luwak Coffee - Being Suman

Curiously Crafted Luwak Coffee: Where Has the Bean Been?

Tea for the Soul, Coffee for… Well, Let’s See. I have nothing against coffee or coffee lovers. I drink coffee too, occasionally. But after learning about Luwak coffee, I’ve stopped being adventurous in my explorations. I am a devout tea enthusiast, and my love for tea runs so shamelessly deep that I might just ink […]

Midlife Personality Change

Discovering My True “Vert”: My Midlife Personality Change

I am an ambivert. I didn’t conclude about it overnight! It took me over a decade to find that out. It was a slow, gradual, confusing process. It didn’t take blood, sweat, or toil, but it definitely took some friends, money, and a few pesky relatives away (yay!). I am sure you all must have […]

Being Suman as enjoying midlife

 6 Sassy Reasons for Learning to Love Your Midlife—Embrace the Hilarity and Wisdom!

Ten years ago I would never have thought I would sit down to write a blog about “learning to love midlife.” Yet, here I am, a proud member and now, an advocate of what I like to call the “Midlife Club.” A New Chapter Begins at Midlife It often starts subtly – a significant birthday […]