Letters to Myself from the End of the World—Hilarious, Raw, and Unfiltered

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Dear me, “You absolute dumbass—remember when you thought life was hard at 15? Ha ha ha. Let’s talk.” These are the opening lines to a letter I wrote to myself. Turns out, I’m not the only one who writes letters to myself. Many authors and filmmakers have embraced the concept of “letters to myself from … Read more

Falling in Love with Yourself: A Self-Discovery Guide for Women 40+

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I consider myself the biggest cheerleader of self-love. But let’s get one thing straight—self-love isn’t a fairytale with rose-tinted glasses and dreamy nonsense. It’s about setting realistic expectations with yourself, treating your heart and mind with the gentleness they deserve, and taking steady, thoughtful steps toward your dreams. If you can fall in love with … Read more

Life by Design Not by Default: Crafting a Fulfilling Life After 40

a midlife woman standing on a serene balcony with a sunset backdrop, exuding confidence, alongside a quote by brené brown about embracing who we are in midlife.

Forty years in, we’ve earned this right: to live a life by design, not by default. For many of us, the nest has started to quiet down—kids grown or growing up, the hustle of everyday demands easing off just a bit. And with this shift, one big question looms- What’s next? I’m right there with … Read more

Writing a Letter to Your Younger Self: 21 Prompts to Get Started

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When I first heard the idea of writing a letter to my younger self, I felt weird. Little did I know then how therapeutic writing a letter to yourself could be. The whole endeavour can lead to writing an enriching guide to build a better life. It felt a little strange, like reaching back through time to … Read more

You Need to Let Go of Regret in Midlife

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In history as in human life, regret does not bring back a lost moment and a thousand years will not recover something lost in a single hour. –  Stefan Zweig    To let go of regret isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. No One Is Immune to Feeling Regret Our relationship with regret starts early. At 8 … Read more

 6 Sassy Reasons for Learning to Love Your Midlife—Embrace the Hilarity and Wisdom!

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  Ten years ago I would never have thought I would sit down to write a blog about “learning to love midlife.” Yet, here I am, a proud member and now, an advocate of what I like to call the “Midlife Club.” A New Chapter Begins at Midlife It often starts subtly – a significant … Read more